Where to Find the Time?

Hello again! One of Fit Britt’s followers asked an excellent question. “ . . . How [does] Environmental Mama fits exercise into her daily schedule? For me, I find WAY too many excuses not to exercise (it is not my favorite thing to do:) and it is easy for a mother to play the martyr and say things like "oh but I have to do this for (insert family member or dog's name)" and then forgo exercising.”

I completely agree that it is even more difficult for moms to come up with an excuse and something with which I definitely struggle. First, I repeat to myself frequently.....happy mom makes for happy kids. Being fit and happy with my size and health makes me better able to deal with my kids, regardless of their age. Whether I am handling a screaming baby, fussy toddler, tantrum-throwing 2 yr old, sassy 3 year old....or a challenging teenager, I am better equipped if I am self-confident and have an outlet for stress. I reason that taking care of myself actually helps me take better care of my children.

So, how to actually take the time to exercise? Here's how I try to stay on track with exercising:

I handle it one of two ways:

1. I make it part of my scheduled day. I have a “spot” where exercise regularly goes. It may be twice a week, three days a week, or five days a week, but it is planned ahead of time. I find myself more likely to exercise if I always do it, say at 9am, Monday, Wednesday and Friday. Make a standing date with yourself.
2. I make an external commitment. It may be a local 5k that I sign up for (and pay) three months in advance, or join a local recreational sports team. You can adjust your “external commitment” based on your fitness level and what you enjoy. Perhaps it will simply be a regular aerobics class you attend with a friend or agreeing to coach a child's soccer team.

I alternate both methods frequently. I seem to go through phases where the regular exercising works great. Say, my husband knows on Tuesday and Thursday at 6pm is my workout time.....or I set my alarm early to do a video three days a week....or I take my kids for a walk before lunch every day. If I’m working, perhaps I devote two lunches to a brisk walk or run. Generally, at some point I find myself “falling off the wagon.” That is usually when I sign up for something. Personally, being a runner, it is typically a race of some sort. I register and pay and set up a training schedule. I’ll be honest. I usually regret signing up at some point, but I press on knowing I’ve already paid and told people about it. I am ALWAYS proud of myself and pleased at the end. That commitment gives me the extra oomph! I need to accomplish a new level of physical fitness. It keeps me inspired to keep up with my regularly scheduled workouts. Until, of course, the cycle repeats itself :)

In conclusion, I think finding the time to exercise is always a challenge regardless of where you are in life. I suggest trying different methods and finding what works for you. If you plan for a morning workout, and sleep through your alarm two weeks in a row—perhaps you need to reassess and look at an evening workout. If you are always skipping the evening workouts (this is me), then try a morning. Or sign up for a fun rec team. A three month sports season might be perfect to get you back into the groove of being fit. We all need encouragement from time to time, so find a positive fitness influence for you. At times I am better than others. Just keep at it!

Good Luck and Happy Exercising!

--Environmental Mama ;)

Additional tidbits from the Fit Britt:

I think this post equally applies to those who don't have kids! You often hear people say "I don't have time..." but the reality is we all have exactly the same amount of time each day. We also each have our own priorities. Having children is a huge lifestyle change, just like moving, starting a new job, getting married, etc. I think it is most important to establish your new routine as quickly as possible, so that it becomes a habit to make it a priority. Equally important is creating a support team. Talk to your spouse/sig-o about ways they can support your new lifestyle desires (watch the kids for an hour, be open to trying new foods, join in on the activity, etc.). However, we can't push our goals onto someone else, so whether the people you live with are on your cheer squad or not, you'll need an entire social network of friends to meet up with for walks, healthy snacks, group exercise classes, etc. Our society loves to catch up with friends over food and drinks... why not catch up during a hike instead? Maybe not all of your friends will be willing, but you certainly need some friends in your life that will be active with you, especially if you are not self motivated to exercise.
Lastly, I find what works best for me is learning more about the healthy benefits of exercise and proper nutrition (and what happens to your body when you don't exercise and eat right - no matter what you look like on the outside)... so I hope to continue to inspire and motivate you with new information every week!

Thanks AmberJamboree for the question, Environmental Mama for your input, and thanks to all for the dialogues that this blog has created!

Have a HEALTHY day!
Fit Britt